All too often as a man, we hear things like “no one cares about your feelings.” Especially, while serving in the US military. Something about being active duty and/or prior service members, men want to come across as the “tough” guy, the guy who has it all together, and doesn’t need to talk to anyone about anything. Since being stationed at Fort Carson, COLORADO, I have heard about at least 3 suicides all by male soldiers. Your feelings do matter, they do need to be heard, and they can save your life by sh